When I was talking to you about the stuff I've been through in my past and was feeling down about it all, you said, "When you think about how far you've come, it's pretty amazing."When we were getting ready to go to that party where I didn't know anybody and I worried about what people would think if I wore some eyeliner and nail polish, you said, "Everybody there is going to have an opinion about us. Let's just be ourselves. That's all that matters."
When my dad wanted me to come over so he could talk to me about whether he was going to continue to help out with my tuition, you said, "What time does he want us there?"
When I wake up first thing in the morning and my hair is all mussed, my eyes have that goopy stuff in them, my breath stinks, and I'm in a grouchy mood, you've said, "Good morning beautiful," and say it like it's the only truth in the world.
When I worry about my future and whether I'll ever be successful, you hold me tight and say you love me, and I forget what I was worrying about.
I'm glad we fell in love with each other, Matty. I had no idea we'd be doing it every day.
You guys (along with Thorny & Jazz) really make me believe in love. Thank you for that :)
ReplyDeleteHugs to you and Matty. Don't ever stop appreciating things like that. That right there is the foundation for a lasting relationship.
ReplyDeleteMy eyes are full--my heart more so--tears of joy--love for you. I am amazed by your relationship--I am floored by your vulnerability--and the fact that you expose those raw feelings for all of us to see.
ReplyDeleteMatty sees you---the real you--the pieces that no one else sees--the heart and soul--the inner beauty--that is what he sees. That is what you see when you look at him in return.
To have that--to be a part of a relationship where the other person chooses daily--moment by moment--to look beyond the faults--the ugliness that each of us has inside us--to turn away from that and choose to focus instead on only that which is good and true within, well, that is priceless. Your relationship is priceless. And the fact that you recognize that...oh Bradley...you are amazing.
You and that boy you love are just amazing!
Pages and pages of poems, dozens of roses, precious stones, expensive gifts all aside; I would any day prefer a tight hug, a reassuring hand on the small of my back, a secretive smile directed at me and a loving hand caressing my forehead when I wake up.
ReplyDeleteWe are lucky, Brad :)
Very sweet, B
ReplyDeleteDear Bradley,
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely post. You and Matty are an inspiration to us all of what love can and should be. You are going through a lot right now, and it is wonderful that you never forget who is always beside you each step of the way. You two see what is true and best in each other.
Watching your relationship unfold is such a delight for the heart. Thank you.
Love and Hugs.
Beautiful Bradley!! Just like the love you and Matty share with each other!! It's those little things that mean so much in a relationship. You two have always been an inspiration to me and this is just another perfect example of why. Those little things...it's what you do when you TRULY love someone! You're there to love and support them, to stand by them no matter what may happen, to allow them to be themselves because that's who you love and why you fell in love with them to begin with. It's a beautiful thing to see Bradley and I am so very happy that you two share it with us and I am very proud of you for sharing such personal emotions with us!!
ReplyDeleteLove you both always!
Lovely - you should print this one out for Matt, for him to keep near when he needs that reminder of how much he means to you. Simple, and just beautifully said (and I see there's another guy half my age who can put eloquent truths in just a few words.) I wish you the same sense of wonder at how well you fit together, for the rest of your lives.
ReplyDeleteLove to you both.
I finally decided to come out of the dark shadows of lurkdom with this post. This was just a joy to read, and when I got to the end of this short post, I wanted it to be longer. But, what we got with this post was really perfect. Not complaining at all.
ReplyDeleteI just recently discovered your blog and have been going back each day to catch up on everything you guys have written. I must say it's been something I look forward to. One of the best things I like is that you guys write about the real things in your life. Sure, there's the bright and shiny things where we get to how well things are going, but there's also the difficult things you deal with also. And even though I'm a little bit older that both of you (I'm in my late 20s), I've learned some important things from you guys.
I have a nineteen year old cousin who just recently came out and told him about your blog. His parents have been less than accepting but he's also gotten some support from some others in his life. Sometimes he talks to me about things you guys write about and I guess I want to say Thank You for writing so honestly about your lives. You really never know who's reading this and what a difference it's most likely making in the lives of others.
Take care! Nate
Susan said:- "Watching your relationship unfold is such a delight for the heart. Thank you."
ReplyDelete- Susan, you've expressed my feeling on reading this perfectly. *hugs*
This is a wonderful love letter to Matt, and that last paragraph is so perfect...
Thank you for sharing it with us, Brad. ♡
Thank you for that comment, Alder. We do seem to have similar thoughts, as when I seconded your request for Thorny's repost.
DeleteWhat a sweet post, Brad. You and Matt have such a special relationship. Made me happy when I read this. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. :)
ReplyDeleteThat was beautifully written, Brad. I have a feeling you and Matt will be falling in love for years to come.
ReplyDeleteI also liked Matt's advice about everyone already having an opinion, so just being yourself. I'm filing that one away for moments of my own insecurity.
That was about the sweetest thing I've ever read.
ReplyDeleteThat was about the sweetest thing I've ever read.
ReplyDeleteSo very sweet! How wonderful that you have each other. It's always good to know someone loves you unconditionally.
ReplyDelete*hugs*
Brad,
ReplyDeleteYou and Matty are a strong couple and I am pleased to see you both are going through everything together. Keep holding on to each other.
Love always,
Katty Kat
So very sweet, B.
ReplyDeleteYou two are truly blessed.
ReplyDeleteMake memories together everyday and never sweat the small stuff.
I absolutely love you both!
ReplyDeleteSusan said it perfectly. Thank you for sharing that beautiful love letter to Matty, it's such a treat seeing you grow through your ups and downs and seeing you get your strength from your inner selves and from each other.
ReplyDeleteWow! I have to get a new calendar -- mine says it's July but obviously this love note indicates that it is valentine's day all over again. :-)
ReplyDeleteAwww, Bradley, that's just beautiful. I'm glad you have each other and be able to witness your love through your blog. Thank you. *hugs to you both*
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh, you guys are so sweet I can hardly stand it! Brad that was so lovely! I am glad that you guys found each other.
ReplyDeleteBradley, you just made me cry! I've missed you guys! Totally my own fault, well not really it's life and death's fault, but that's a different story altogether!
ReplyDeleteMassive Hugs and loves!!