Well, we've safely arrived back home from our vacation in Maine! There were a few things about the vacation we want to write about, so we hope to have that up shortly.
We also want to get back to something we wrote about a while back. You know, in so many ways our relationship and love is growing, but it's not all been "smooth sailing," which I suppose is typical of any relationship. I mean, you grow through all the good times you share AND also the "hard stuff" can also make you stronger if you know how to work through it.
We've had some minor arguments and a few major ones over the past year. Thankfully we've been able to clear things up and work some stuff out. We think it's made us stronger in many ways. Some of it has been easy to work out and other things have been very hard and scary. I mean, there's a lot at stake, right?
So, we're talking about how we're going to write about it. One of our readers sent us a message about whether we ever argue (short answer: yes!), and if so, how is "making up." We guess it's pretty normal after spending a lot of time talking about an argument, expressing our feelings, including anger, disappointment, feeling hurt, etc., that once you get things worked out and clear the air, you have all these pent-up feelings going on afterwards that need a release. And, yes, we're talking here about some pretty intense lovemaking.
We've talked about how much detail to include in the "making up" part. We don't want to turn things into a major porn site {sly grin}, so we're not sure how everybody feels about hearing about that stuff. Like, how much is Too Much Information? We never wanted our blog to be so serious that we never had any fun, and, well, maybe writing about the "making up" might fit in the "having fun" category.
So, we were wondering how all of you feel about hearing about that? How much is Too Much Information? We're going to ultimately decide that for ourselves, of course, but we thought we'd ask for your feedback. So, give it some thought and maybe use the comment section for this post to leave us your thoughts. If we make it too racy, would you be inclined to think less of us? Would you prefer we keep things kinda like they've been going, or would it be fun to hear more of the "down and dirty" details? Let us know.
Hey pery Jaime here and yes I want to know all the down and dirty(or as much as your willing to share). Sex is a part of your relationship so yep I want to know!
ReplyDeleteI love reading your blog guys!
You know, it really depends on how much you guys are comfortable with revealing. I can only speak for myself, of course, but I don't mind racy and I certainly wouldn't think less of either of you if you posted something a bit more graphic. I doubt very many of your followers would.
ReplyDeleteI don't really mind TMI, and sometimes I tend to overshare (LOL), so I say, go into as much detail are you two are comfortable with sharing. You can’t please everyone no matter what you do. And, above all, this is your blog and we’re just along for the ride. It’s nice of you to worry about your readers, but I would say not to spend too much time wondering about what we might think and just go for it. :)
I wouldn't think less of you, you can post whatever you like to share with us. There's no such thing as TMI for me. As long as you both are comfortable with what you write. I wouldn't want you fighting over this. Unless of course that is a good excuse for hot makeup sex ;)
ReplyDeleteDitto everything Harper said.
ReplyDeletewell it's up to you of course whatever you feel comfortable with. As for me growing p around all boys there is very little i haven't heard so there isn't anything you could say to offend or embrass me with. so in the end whatever you two decide i'm in for the ride. hugs to you both and so happy you home safe.
ReplyDeleteTotally agree with what everyone else said, whatever you two feel comfortable sharing is just right. You could always post a warning at the beginning of a post that warns of "graphic" content, so peeps can avoid it if they want.
ReplyDeleteAnd welcome home, guys! Sounds like you had a wonderful, romantic and fun vacation. Missed you both! Big Huggzzz!!!
Welcome back. I agree with what everyone else has said. I've read and heard about everything out there so there isn't much to shock me. I wouldn't think less of you guys over something you write about your sex life. That is your guys business and yours to share as you choose. I'm happy to hear you all are asking about this and trying to be open about your relationship. It's very brave.
ReplyDeleteShare as much as you are comfortable with...we can take it! ;)
ReplyDeleteI agree with all of the above! This blog is all about you two and your relationship, so share whatever, whenever, and we'll listen, that's why we're here. I'm not opposed to TMI at all and would never think less of you, I adore you both!
ReplyDeleteI agree w/ what everyone else has said. Ultimately, it's about YOUR comfort zone as a couple in revealing details about your lives.
ReplyDeleteYour private "after party" on prom night wasn't explicitly detailed, but we ALL got the idea. That's one way to possibly handle that issue. Again, though, it's ultimately up to you guys.
This is your blog so you write what you want, but it's lovely that you are asking. Personally I think you both will know what is to be kept private & what you think your followers would love to hear. This is meant to be fun, so have FUN!!!
ReplyDeleteGreat to hear you both got back from your trip in one piece, together:)
I could just cut and paste what Carmel wrote above. I think we all pretty much adore you two!
ReplyDeleteAs for thinking less of you - not gonna happen. This blog should be a safe place for you to share what you want to share. :)
Hey everybody, thanks a lot for your comments. I don't know why we sorta struggled with this issue. We've decided that we're going to just let things flow naturally. Meaning, when we post something, if it feels natural to include a little fun involving our sex life, we'll include that.
ReplyDeleteWe've read some blogs (nobody's here, btw) where it seems like the blogger is "letting it all hang out" (no pun intended) and there's no story-line behind why they're giving all the details of the sex. So, if we're talking about how we struggled through a problem and worked things out, and then had a little sexual fun releasing all that pent-up emotion, then we'll include it in the natural flow of things.
Again, thanks for your feedback. As usual your comments have sparked a lot of conversation between the two of us! You guys are awesome.